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Trust only movement. Life happens at the level of events, not of words. Trust movement.
– Alfred Adler
In the lines of Adler a controversial contemporary of Freud, he probed the most important question when considering whom to trust.
When Adler speaks of “movement,” he is referencing actions like the saying,
He goes beyond to say that
“only” actions can be trusted
&
basically discounts words altogether.
He posed Questions like…
How much do you trust words in comparison to actions?
Do you generally trust words, or do you need movement to back them up?
Do you see a difference between your partner’s words and their actions?
OR
Do you see a difference between your words and your actions irrespective of your intention?
If so, what accounts for that difference?
How have you addressed it in your key relationships?
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As a partners of sex addict, the most painful aspect is “THE LIES”
Do you see yourself struggling and stuck there?
Were these lies feel deliberate and personal.
Have these lies violated your trust, making the betrayal feel deeply personal.
Do you feel stuck where no matter how often your partner or your therapist says it is the pain makes it hard for you to not to internalize it.
Betrayal by someone you love and trust is traumatic,
sexual betrayal deeply damages one’s sense of self and security,
This leads to physical symptoms and mistrust, making re-establishing trust vital for healing.
Polygraph testing can help restore Trust and Accountability.
Polygraph testing is a valuable intervention in early recovery;
helping couples establish trust & accountability;
The test measures physiological responses during interview
&
is administered by a trained & licensed polygrapher following ethical standards;
It is used to verify fidelity & sobriety;
Its especially helpful in the early stages of recovery
to reduce your experience of confusion & gaslighting.
Benefits for you as a Partner
- Confirms the truth
- Adds accountability
- Rebuilds trust in your instincts
- Helps you validate your feelings and intuition prior to discovery, and reassures that you were not wrong or crazy
- Helps re-establish safety
- Shows the addict’s commitment to recovery and the relationship
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Benefits for you as a Recovering Addict
– Helps rebuild trust with your partner
– Helps rule out behavior that your partner suspected you are involved in.
– Promotes a through well-prepared disclosure document
– Boosts accountability in yourself, for your partner, and the treatment
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FAQ
What is a polygraph?
The word polygraph means “many writings” in Greek, referring to the multiple physiological responses it records. Originally used for medical purposes in the 19th century, it now commonly refers to a truth-testing device. Modern polygraphs are computerized and use specialized software to assist examiners.
What does the polygraph record?
Modern polygraphs record five or more physiological signals, including breathing, skin moisture, pulse, blood pressure, & body movement. Sensors are placed on the chest, stomach, fingers, and arm. These sensitive instruments track changes throughout the test, which the examiner later analyzes to assess truthfulness or deception.
Is the examination confidential?
Yes, the test is confidential. Results are only shared with those named in a signed agreement, unless required by law.
How long does a polygraph examination take?
Most polygraph exams last 90–120 minutes, with most of the time spent in a standardized pre-test interview.
Will I know what questions are on the test?
Yes, All the four questions are reviewed by the partner & all questions are also reviewed with the person taking the test before the test begins.
Can nervousness affect the test results?
Everyone feels nervous during a polygraph—it is expected. Examiners look for changes in physiological patterns, not elevated levels like high blood pressure.
Can anyone beat a polygraph examination?
While no system is foolproof, attempts to beat a polygraph carry a high risk of detection. Research shows such methods often reduce the chances of passing.
How accurate is the polygraph?
Polygraph accuracy varies by approach, with event-specific tests showing 85–90% accuracy. Some other technique-focused studies report slightly over 90% accuracy.
What are some considerations that could make someone unsuitable for a polygraph test?
Unsuitable for polygraph testing:
- Active psychosis or severe developmental issues
- Drug/alcohol impairment or dementia
- Inability to give consent or under age of consent
- Extreme distress or inability to sit still
- Medical conditions that prevent sensor placement
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