Counselling
MARRIAGE COUNSELING
We consider marriage a lifetime commitment based on a kind and courteous relationship.
The couple’s top objective should be to strengthen their partnership. Marriage is a continuous process, and despite all the obstacles life presents, you should still strive to strengthen your bond.
You expected your marriage to be pleasant and enrich your life on your wedding day. Even if your marriage is starting to show indications of problems, we think you may still achieve that ambition despite the growing divorce rate. We think we can assist you in strengthening your bond with your spouse by beginning with a precise evaluation of your marriage (its strengths and its places for improvement).
We make use of a confidential marriage assessment tool that is only accessible to certified marital counsellors. Dr. John and Julie Gottman’s more than 40 years of scientific research support this conclusion. The comprehensive, in-depth, and fact-based data used by this data-driven relationship evaluation tool explains why relationships work or don’t work.
There are five categories in the assessment:
Safety Scales, Shared Meaning Scales, Friendship and Intimacy, and Individual Areas of Concern. It covers subjects that might jeopardize a relationship, such as friendship, intimacy, money, kids, trust, commitment, drug and alcohol abuse, and personal problems. This evaluation offers frank, relationship-specific comments to help you see what’s working well and where your partnership may benefit from more attention.
Intimacy, respect, and affection are increased, barriers that cause feelings of stagnancy in conflicting situations are removed, and a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship are all goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
During marriage therapy, the following topics should be covered in part:
- Evaluate the issues that you are facing more deeply.
- Open and honest communication skills would be used to discuss and resolve issues that both the husband and wife deal with.
- A one-on-one appointment with the counselor can also be required.
When Is It Time to Get Marital Therapy?
- Your union has become more distant.
- You quarrel over finances.
- A partner has cheated on you.
- You have unpleasant, ineffective arguments.
- You are undergoing a difficult change.
- Your romantic life isn’t passionate or intimate enough.
- You’ve been considering getting a divorce.