Counselling
MALE PARTNER BETRAYAL TRAUMA CARE
You’re not alone in your pain. We see you, we hear you, and we are creating resources and support specifically for male betrayed partners.
– Marnie Breecker
While female betrayed partners, in general, have gained considerable attention, it’s crucial not to overlook the experiences of men in similar situations. The need of the hour is to ensure men also have access to safe spaces where they can openly express their pain without fear of judgment, have their emotions validated, and receive dedicated support for their healing journey, irrespective of gender. You are likely going through a lot of emotional reactions as a result of finding out that your partner has cheated on you.
DILEMMA OF DISCOVERY
GETTING STUCK WITH QUESTIONS LIKE:
- “How could she do this to me?”
- “What went wrong?”
- “How was I not able to satisfy her needs?”
- “Why could I not see this coming?”
- I am feeling less of a man or a dark sense of shame.
OR
YOU SEE YOURSELF STUCK IN THIS NEVER-ENDING CONFLICT
You feel devastated and want to tell the whole world and all her family what she did to you, yet there is a part of you that doesn’t want to talk about it to others.
You want to let everybody know how she has betrayed you, but you don’t want them to hate her or judge either one of you.
You want to protect her and expose her at the same time.
Self-care is not just a luxury, but a necessity for survival. It is important to surround yourself with supportive individuals who can offer empathy, and understanding, and a safe space to share your feelings can be invaluable.
In the face of betrayal, healing may seem like an impossible task for male partners. Male betrayed partners are often overlooked in the treatment of betrayal trauma. Men are often taught to be strong and be a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining, making it furthermore difficult to seek help when they experience betrayal. The socialization of men furthermore discourages them from asking for help and acknowledging their pain.
Remember, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Seeking help and support is not a sign of weakness, but rather a testament to your resilience and courage in facing the challenges ahead We at Thrive Beyond Trauma Counseling, aim to empower you with the resources and provide you with a safe environment for processing emotions, exploring triggers, and developing coping strategies.
Adult males who experience symptoms of betrayal trauma as a result of a partner’s infidelity, addiction, dishonesty, gaslighting, or emotional abuse.
- Reduce isolation
- Overcome shame
- Strengthen the sense of self
- Mobilize productive action for healing
- Connect to inner strength and resiliency
- Clarify direction for healthy decision-making
GROUP - MALE PARTNER BETRAYAL TRAUMA
This group is for MEN who find themselves trapped, overwhelmed, or unsure how to respond to the shock of an intimate partner’s INFIDELITY, addiction, or chronic deceit. It will help you work through the crisis, engagement, confusion, and grief of betrayal.
WOMEN'S INTIMACY GROUP
What we have uncovered in our experience is Porn and Sex Addiction might look similar for men and women on the outside but presents itself very differently.
GROUP-FEMALE PARTNER BETRAYAL TRAUMA
This group is for WOMEN who find themselves trapped, overwhelmed, or unsure how to respond to the shock of an intimate partner’s INFIDELITY, addiction, or chronic deceit.
PORN/SEX ADDICTION
This group is designed to help men who have just begun their sexual addiction recovery & want to better understand what it takes to move beyond addictive bondage to healthy freedom.
TRAUMA GROUP
Trauma can result from stressful exposure to any type of single event or repetitive situation that leaves us feeling stuck with painful feelings and negative beliefs.