Trauma-Informed Couples Therapy in Farmington Hills

Available in-person and virtually across Michigan.

If your relationship feels strained, disconnected or destabilized, it's often not a lack of effort

It’s that the relationship is overloaded.

Relational Healing Services at Thrive, are organized by the type & severity of relationship injury, so couples receive the right level of care at the right time. 

*Find the right level of relational care for what your relationship is carrying*

Relational healing focuses on the relationship system

Not individual blame.

At Thrive, couples work centers on: 

  • Emotional and nervous-system safety 
  • Attachment-informed care 
  • Trauma-aware pacing 
  • Restoring trust without retraumatization 

Healing begins by stabilizing the relationship

Before attempting repair or reconnection.

*Safety comes before closeness.*

Different relationship challenges require different levels of care.

The pathways below help identify the safest & most effective starting point.

An overview of the couples healing services at Thrive Beyond Trauma Counseling & shows how these approaches work together — So you can begin to understand your options without needing to choose perfectly.

Each approach listed below has its own dedicated page with detailed explanations, benefits, & suitability. This is simply a place to begin.

Foundational Couples Work 

This may fit if: Communication feels strained, & you want skills-based support.

This is not for: Active addiction, chronic secrecy, or unresolved disclosure.

Rebuilding Connection & Closeness 

This may fit if: You feel disconnected, intimacy is strained, & the relationship is stressed but stable.

This is not for: Acute betrayal trauma or active deception.

Addiction-Related & Trauma-Informed Care 

This may fit if: Trust is broken, addiction or trauma is involved, & safety & clarity feel lost.

This is not for: No addiction & no secrecy/betrayal-related trust rupture.

A Structured Process for Truth, Safety & Clarity

This may fit if: When major information is withheld, stories have shifted, & you can’t move forward without full clarity.

This is not for: Unstructured “truth dumping”.

Repair, rebuild, reconnect after clarity

This may fit if: When words no longer feel enough, doubt won’t settle, & verification would support safety.

This is not for: Punishment/control, or when someone cannot safely/ethically complete a polygraph.

Advanced Repair After Truth-Telling 

This may fit if: Conversations feel unsafe, disclosure is complete & paced repair is needed.

This is not for: General couples therapy or early-stage repair before disclosure/clarity is established.

Traditional couples therapy is not always the safest place to begin. 

A different starting point is often needed when there is:

  • Active addiction with ongoing deception 
  • Unresolved or avoided disclosure 
  • Acute betrayal trauma 
  • Significant emotional destabilization 

This is not about giving up on the relationship

It is about sequencing care to protect both partners.

*The right starting point prevents further harm.*

*You do not need to know exactly which service fits before reaching out.*

If connection feels strained → repair-focused work may help. 

If trust has been broken → betrayal-informed care is essential.  

If disclosure has already occurred → post-disclosure support may be appropriate.

We help couples assess safety, readiness, & pacing

So the right work happens at the right time. 

*Clarity comes before commitment.*

We’ll help you find the safest starting point — No pressure.

When you’re ready, we’re here

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If you are in crisis or experiencing an emergency, please call 911 or your local emergency services, or visit the nearest emergency room.

Thrive Beyond Trauma Counseling does not provide crisis or emergency services.

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