Hypnotherapy & Breathwork FAQ

Couples Work + Disclosure + Intimacy + Repair After Infidelity

Hypnotherapy & Breathwork in Farmington Hills

Available in-person and virtually across Michigan.

Hypnotherapy

Do you work with both the addiction/compulsion and the betrayal impact?

Yes. When compulsive behavior affects a relationship, there are usually two clinical lanes:

Compulsion recovery + shame cycle repair

Betrayal trauma stabilization + safety/repair work.

Are you going to force disclosure or a “full confession”?

No forced disclosure.

Structured disclosure is clinically appropriate, it is planned:

  • Carefully
  • Paced
  • Supported

Never done impulsively or in a way that floods the nervous system.

How do you work with couples when one partner is traumatized and the other is defensive?

We slow down and prioritize safety.

Repair work requires:

  • Stabilization
  • Accountability without humiliation
  • Communication that doesn’t retraumatize
Can hypnotherapy help couples, or is it only individual?

Hypnotherapy is primarily individual-focused, but it can support couples indirectly by:

  • Reducing nervous-system reactivity
  • Shame spirals
  • Avoidance
  • Threat responses

So repair conversations become possible. (When used, it’s coordinated with therapy goals and consent.)

What if the partner who betrayed me is also the one I want comfort from?

That’s a betrayal bind. We treat the nervous-system conflict (attachment longing + threat response)

So you can make decisions and communicate from steadiness rather than panic.

Do partners have to “forgive” to move forward?

No. Healing is not the same as forgiveness. 

The goal is:

  • Safety
  • Clarity
  • Boundaries
  • Repair (if chosen)

Not pressure to reconcile or excuse.

What does repair actually look like after betrayal?

Repair looks like:

  • Reduced hypervigilance
  • Less detective looping
  • Consistent accountability
  • Healthier agreements
  • Improved emotional regulation
  • Trust rebuilding that feels embodied—Not performative.
Can couples heal even if they’re unsure whether they’ll stay together?

Yes. Work can focus on:

  • stabilization
  • Clarity
  • Boundaries
  • Self-trust

While you decide what alignment looks like moving forward.

*Hypnotherapy supports trauma-sensitive subconscious repair—Reducing threat activation, intrusive loops, and “detectiveness” patterns by rebuilding internal safety and self-trust.*

Breathwork

Can breathwork help couples after betrayal or infidelity?

Yes—Breathwork can support couples by reducing reactivity and helping each partner come back to regulation before difficult conversations.

It’s a nervous-system foundation that makes repair work more possible.

Do you use breathwork during disclosure or high-conflict conversations?

We don’t use intense breathwork during flooding moments.

We use brief, grounding-based regulation techniques before/after hard conversations so neither partner is pushed past tolerance.

What if one partner is activated and the other shuts down?

That’s a common nervous-system mismatch. Breathwork helps each partner build capacity

One to downshift, the other to stay present—So connection and repair can actually happen.

Can breathwork improve intimacy after betrayal?

It can support reconnection by reducing fear responses in the body and rebuilding safety.

Intimacy repair isn’t forced—It’s rebuilt through:

  • Steadiness
  • Consent
  • Nervous-system trust

Therapy can help you with this.

Is breathwork a replacement for couples therapy?

No. It’s a powerful support tool.

Breathwork helps regulation; therapy addresses:

  • Meaning
  • Trust
  • Boundaries
  • Repair agreements

*Breathwork helps partners regulate before and after hard conversations—Lowering escalation, increasing emotional tolerance, and making disclosure and repair work more steady and workable.*

You deserve support that honors the depth of what you’ve experienced.

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If you are in crisis or experiencing an emergency, please call 911 or your local emergency services, or visit the nearest emergency room.

Thrive Beyond Trauma Counseling does not provide crisis or emergency services.

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