Care for Broken Trust, Addiction, and Relational Repair 

Trauma-Informed Couples Therapy in Farmington Hills

Available in-person and virtually across Michigan.

After betrayal, the relationship no longer feels familiar or safe. 

What hurts most is often not only what happened

But the shock, confusion, and loss of trust that follow. 

You may feel: 

  • Unable to trust what you are being told 
  • Stuck between wanting closeness and wanting distance 
  • Emotionally flooded, hypervigilant, or numb 
  • Unsure whether healing is even possible 

Betrayal overwhelms the nervous system of both partners and destabilizes the relationship as a whole. 

This work exists because betrayal requires more than traditional couples therapy. 

*Betrayal breaks safety before it breaks love.*

Couples Healing After Betrayal is a structured, trauma-informed path

Its for relationships impacted by betrayal, secrecy, or addiction.

This work focuses on: 

  • Restoring emotional and relational safety 
  • Stabilizing trauma responses 
  • Establishing clarity and accountability 
  • Repairing attachment injuries 
  • Rebuilding trust gradually and ethically 

The goal is not to rush forgiveness or reconciliation,

But to create the conditions where healing becomes possible.

*Healing after betrayal requires structure, safety, and truth.*

Healing after betrayal is paced and carefully sequenced

This work integrates: 

  • Betrayal-trauma-informed framework
  • Attachment-based couples therapy 
  • Nervous-system regulation 
  • Accountability and recovery integration 
  • Gottman-informed stabilization and repair 

We slow it down and restore safety first.

We reduce retraumatization before deeper repair begins.

*Stabilization comes before repair.*

Couples Healing After Betrayal helps partners: 

  • Reduce trauma-driven reactivity 
  • Establish emotional and relational safety 
  • Stop cycling the same betrayal arguments
  • Create transparency and accountability 
  • Rebuild trust over time 
  • Restore emotional and physical connection safely 

This work respects both partners nervous system and does not force timelines or outcomes.

*Repair happens at the pace safety allows.*

This service may be appropriate if your relationship has been impacted by secrecy around: 

Physical
  • Porn or sexual behaviors
  • Addiction-related betrayal 
  • Sex addiction or compulsive sexual behavior 
  • Physical infidelity
Emotional
  • Emotional infidelity 
  • Repeated breaches of trust 
  • Chronic lying or deception 
Betrayal trauma affects both partners
  • Betrayed partner
  • Partner who caused harm

They require care that addresses the relationship system, not just individual behavior. 

*Betrayal is a relational injury, not an individual failure.*

This pathway is often the correct place to begin when: 

  • Addiction-related behaviors are present 
  • Significant information has been withheld 
  • Trust feels unsafe or unstable 
  • Trauma symptoms are active 
  • Partners feel overwhelmed or stuck 

Beginning here protects both partners and the relationship. 

*The right starting point matters.*

Traditional couples therapy focuses on communication and conflict

Couples Healing After Betrayal addresses: 

  • Trauma responses rather than communication alone
  • Power imbalances created by secrecy 
  • The impact of addiction and deception 
  • Safety before emotional processing 

When betrayal or addiction is present, starting with standard couples therapy can increase harm rather than reduce it. 

*Different wounds require different care.*

Each service plays a specific role in

Restoring safety, clarity, and connection.

*Healing is supported through intentional sequencing.*

You are not broken.

Healing begins with a single step — Reaching out.

Online care allows couples to receive structured, trauma-informed support from the safety of their own space.

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If you are in crisis or experiencing an emergency, please call 911 or your local emergency services, or visit the nearest emergency room.

Thrive Beyond Trauma Counseling does not provide crisis or emergency services.

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